Would love to know how NYCindie's potential developed . . .
Hi there. I am not sure if I posted an update anywhere, but the married poly guy and I did have a second date. I guess that was sometime in May. We had a very pleasant time - had lunch and made out.
He asked if we could go back to my apartment and I said no, because I wasn't feeling ready for that. Even though the parameters are supposed to be casual, I still didn't want to jump in bed with him right away. Yes, I liked him and enjoyed kissing him, but was not prepared mentally to bring him home that day. Plus my apartment was a mess, LOL. So, we hung out a little while longer and then parted company.
I thought the date ended on a good note. He texted me to say he enjoyed himself. About a week or two later, we emailed about trying to schedule something. Then he told me that his summer was going to be very busy due to a work project and he didn't think he'd have time to see me over the summer after all. He sounded like he sincerely regretted that, but who knows. I told him no worries, to just let me know if he becomes available and I said something like, "If schedules open up and we really want to get together, we'll make it work." He appreciated my flexibility and understanding.
We touched base maybe twice through the summer and I haven't heard from him since. I really don't know if he was making an excuse or what, but it doesn't really bother me. He is a really nice guy, and I know he was into me, but anything could've happened since May - he and his wife might not even be open anymore, I dunno. If he gets in touch, he gets in touch. I was thinking about reaching out to him this coming week just to say hello. So, we'll see.
Meantime, there are two other guys I met while out socially. One is a pilot who doesn't live here but flies private planes in and out of NYC every now and then. I told him to get in touch when next he knows he will be here and I'll make time for him. He is what I would call a spitfire - lots of fun and upbeat energy. So, I'm looking forward to hearing from him. The other guy is someone with whom I feel there is potential for something ongoing in a more steady or frequent way, but still as a FWB. He is my age, handsome, smart, funny, successful, and sexy. There is definitely chemistry between us and I plan on getting in touch with him this week to see if we can schedule something.