SNeacail
New member
We did have sex today. But I felt it was not what I would have liked to be our first time together again.
Stop being so hard on yourself. This reminds me of a time my husband and I tried to have "make-up" sex. I had this image in my head of how it should be and frankly my head just couldn't get into it. Between still processing our argument and feeling guilty for not being able to respond, it just became a disaster that ended with me in tears. Then we both felt horrible. However, being able to recognize this about myself helped immensely. Now we just cuddle and cling in bed after a fight and let the sex come a day or two (or more) later. We all act and respond differently to each situation. Keep Armani informed about where your at, so he doesn't have to guess only to get accused of pushing.