ilovestrawberries
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I have to ask what poly people think about this.
If you're out on a date with one of your partners, then you come home to the partner you live with, do you always shower first?
My wife did not shower the other night before coming home because "there were no fluids". However, they were naked together, kissing (not just on the mouth), and it was hot and sweaty. I have a thing about cleanliness and could smell the other person's scent on her. I have a very sensitive nose and could totally tell that her hair smelled different and also was a little weirded out and not wanting to kiss any part of her body if that person's mouth was all over her.
I'm sorry if this question is weird, but I honestly want to know what people do. To me, it's just common sense to shower after this sort of thing. My wife is really sensitive about being told she's "dirty", so it's a delicate subject.
If you're out on a date with one of your partners, then you come home to the partner you live with, do you always shower first?
My wife did not shower the other night before coming home because "there were no fluids". However, they were naked together, kissing (not just on the mouth), and it was hot and sweaty. I have a thing about cleanliness and could smell the other person's scent on her. I have a very sensitive nose and could totally tell that her hair smelled different and also was a little weirded out and not wanting to kiss any part of her body if that person's mouth was all over her.
I'm sorry if this question is weird, but I honestly want to know what people do. To me, it's just common sense to shower after this sort of thing. My wife is really sensitive about being told she's "dirty", so it's a delicate subject.