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Old 08-02-2009, 02:36 PM
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I think XYZ123 is on the right path. Your best bet may be in the industry itself since you will
probably be dealing with nonmonogamous partners. Otherwise, if you meet a single woman, you have several issues that have to be met. She has to be bisexual, attracted to you and your wife (I am assuming you are a married MF couple), be ok with you being in the sex industry and be open to polyamory.

To increase your odds, you could also consider married women who are into polyamory and would be open to dating you and your wife. Or just work on the "V" model where you or her look to date someone in a more one on one sense and see if it leads to a triad or threesomes.
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Old 08-02-2009, 07:40 PM
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Hey, and welcome! Do you happen to be present on any of the adult webmaster boards like GFY?
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Old 08-03-2009, 08:23 PM
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Thank you xyz, we perform with multiple partners and yes you would think we would find a girl in our industry but as it often goes if they are really open in one way they are not so much in another.
In this case they are open-minded sexually but not emotionally.
We are not giving up though
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Old 08-03-2009, 08:27 PM
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We are going to take your advice xyz and quath, thank you.
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Old 08-03-2009, 08:30 PM
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Hey Olivier,
I don't go on GFY but Jenny use to from time to time.
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Old 11-07-2009, 09:20 PM
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Question What's the best way

What do you think would be the best way to find poly partner (other than this site obviously)

Finding someone already polyamorous

or

Getting someone interested in practicing poly with you

????????????

Can't wait to hear some answers and insite!
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Old 11-07-2009, 09:41 PM
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Check and see if your town is listed: http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html

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Old 11-07-2009, 09:44 PM
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Check and see if your town is listed: http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html

Unfortunitly it was not listed, I live in Miami btw....
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Old 11-07-2009, 11:19 PM
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OKC, etc.... do a search on here and you will find a thread on it....

there is also finding the local poly group too. At least you will find like minded people and it will open some doors too.
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Old 11-08-2009, 01:01 AM
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How 'bout this?

http://polyamory.meetup.com/362/
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