Hi you all. It has taken a bit of time for me to figure out how to reply to your response but here I finally am. When my late wife and I were involved in NYC, we were very cautious but very pleased with our contacts. They would start slowly, you know, informal get togethers and then on to more wonderful things. My wife knows of my past, also knows of my bi interests and I respect her straight position although I have reason to believe she is curious but is afraid, for some unknown reason, to explore poly or even bi herself. Can we chat?