Recent content by Arinbjorn

I am in Machesney Park, 61115. Just north of Rockford =)

I haven't heard of the title before. Doesn't surprise me that there are at least five ways to express love though. I'll see if I can find a copy somehow. Thank you!

Transgendered lovers are indeed very needy. I totally understand - well, at least I try to understand. Their world is turned upside down - it's scary, nothing is as it once was. There's a lot of new skills to learn, things to do. How terrifying it is to try to go out in society. I try to be...

I still don't fully understand why she had the first affair - what I could have possibly done to deserve that. I ended up realizing that I still loved her. I loved her enough to cut her loose if that is what she wanted, or to forgive her and try to move forward. She decided that she still loved...

So many responses! I thank each of you for your help. I'll try to answer some things... Yes, she stayed with me when I was in the Army - we have some long distance relationship time under our belts. It's rough - I didn't mind risking my life, but it's not easy for a spouse to be on board with...

We do try to communicate a lot. I think it's definetly critical. Figuring out how to make communication better and actually productive is difficult. It seems like it always turns into open season on people's emotions and isn't that productive. We try to spend time together too. If we are doing...

My wife is the hinge in our V, with another male partner who is transitioning to female via estrogen therapy. My wife wanted us to have a threesome together, so we tried. It was a very odd experience. For me, it's just too much like cuckoldry now. I don't want to know - I don't want to...

I'm having some difficulty in our V - and I may decide to stop being polyamorous. I wanted to put the situation out there, and see if perhaps there is something I can do to help make the situation better. Any advice is much appreciated. My back story: My wife and I have been married for over...

Welcome to the forums. In my experiences, communication has been hugely important. Even if emotional attachment is still the rule, I would communicate it, and see what happens. Let everyone know you still want to abide by whatever makes them happy - but harboring emotions usually doesn't work...

Welcome to the forums - congratulations for the baby! If you select your whole message in the future and "copy" it, CRTL + C, before you send it... if you get timed out, you can then just relog on and "paste" it. It's helped me alot on different forums to just make that a habit.

Welcome to the forums, again!

Welcome to the forums. I would like to visit Romania some day. It's on the hit list of places to see before I kick the bucket someday :D

Pleased to meet ya. Welcome to the forums.

Welcome to the forums. I hope things continue to go well for you.

Welcome to the forums!