Recent content by belleamore

Saw the title, went "bwuh?" and decided not to give it a read.

I think that while raised to be monogamous, and taught that any sort of relationship that isn't monogamous is bad, I am predisposed to being polyamorous. It's gotten me in trouble in the past, when I didn't understand that's how my heart worked - I thought that having feelings for more than one...

Thanks, everyone, for all your thoughtful replies. I'm just working on making it through each day and trying to focus on the future, and the fact that he and I can still at least be friends. It's tough, especially lately, since it's coming up on what would have been our anniversary soon. But I...

Well, my relationship with my secondary partner recently dissolved, mostly because he discovered he couldn't function well as part of a poly relationship. It's incredibly frustrating, because we both love each other, quite possibly too much for the boundaries of what we can logically have right...

Thank you, both of you, for the advice. :) I realize I need to communicate things more clearly myself - I hadn't exactly intended on having sex with M when I was up there, but it ended up happening anyway. I didn't think it would be such an issue, but then again, not thinking is what got me...

I am apparently in the midst of another relationshipsplosion, and I worry that M is going to decide that I'm too much work and too much drama to be in a relationship with. :/

This one's... something XD "good lord, you are so effing gorgeous I can't even stand it haha I'm glad I moved to <state where I live> now" And of course, now his profile's deleted. :P

How do you try and get someone to be completely open about their desires, aside from just telling them "Tell me what you want!" and hoping they listen? I'm having some serious communication issues with B, my husband. When I ask B a question, especially one about seeing my boyfriend, M, B will...

I am thankfully done with the semester - I've got a few days to relax and catch up on TV before going to NY to visit family. I will be so glad to get a bit of a break!

Here's one I just got: "Nice!!!! You're super Cute (: and sound super Tubular ((:" ... what the heck? Tubular? Did we go back to the 80s and I missed it? XD

Hahaha, I love that bumper sticker. XD

That's wonderful news! You're very lucky - I don't think either of my partners will ever see eye to eye, and so I'm happy that things have worked out for you like that. :)

It's good to meet you! I have a wordpress blog as well, bellesmanyloves. I'm in a similar situation - I have a husband and a boyfriend, and I love them both very much. :)

Hello all - my husband stumbled across the forums here over the summer while looking for more information about polyamory, and I've finally gotten the guts up to sign up here. I'm very much polyamorous - I've been that way through all of my romantic life. It's just how I'm wired. I'm married...