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    Hi! I wanted to say thanks for the opinions on my thread about virginity. I don't need people to...

    Hi! I wanted to say thanks for the opinions on my thread about virginity. I don't need people to agree with me, but some of them were being a bit rude and presumptuous. It's nice to have people who can be objective without shaming others.
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    All right, I'm gonna see if I can make this my last reply. Yes, I said I would wait a few years, so I did go back on my own word. Several years is my timeframe because that's how long my serious relationships have lasted before other issues got in the way. I still think it depends on the...
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    Double response, I'm not waiting for a White Knight on his Mighty Steed. I just want someone I feel close to and trust. I am very sure the first person I have sex with will probably not be the last. I used to be waiting for marriage and I dumped that ideal because I realized it was silly to...
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    There are so many opinions here, wow. I was going for opinions about virginity in general, and I'm gonna ask you guys to please refrain from stating what you think I meant as the OP. Sex is not a prize or trophy to be won. It's an intimate act that displays closeness. I'm not going to kiss...
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    Thank you! That's basically stating everything I meant more concisely.
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    Woah, a whole debate went on after I went to bed. Can I clear a few things? I don't consider myself asexual. I label myself as bisexual and biromantic, though even that isn't set in stone since I haven't met anyone outside the gender binary to determine whether I could be attracted to those...
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    I'm going to quote this whole thing and answer each part, because I don't mind sharing and talking about this topic is nice. I'm eighteen, for reference. I actually have a very high libido, as far as playing with myself goes. I masturbate almost every day, and have for the last few years. And...
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    Thanks for the reply, I'd be happy to answer your own question. I'm fairly young and so being a virgin isn't completely surprising for someone my age, but I keep my virginity because I was raised to think of sex as a special and intimate act for someone you truly care about. At first I thought...
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    Hello, everyone. I'm new to the poly scene and just joined the website. I've been learning about polyamory online, and there is one question I can't seem to find an answer for. I'll cut to the chase. I'm a virgin. One major part of polyamory seems to be the sex, and many of the websites I've...
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