Recent content by choctaw103

Wow...I admire and at the same time feel sorry for your jetset lifestyle at the moment. So much to do and so little time.

Label yourself human being and be done with it, I don't understand all the questioning on your blog when you freely admit to not knowing it all and trying to improve. Once again, good luck I hope you all come through it on the other side stronger and better for it all. I have personally been...

It sounds like you may need some help, if you are being told you are valued and that someone loves you but you can't help but fear something will go wrong, that would seem to be an internal problem. You have value and you are valued by the person you are seeing, by his own admission, so don't...

Wonderful, all of it. Good for both of you. I will say the only people who are truly incompatible are those who are unwilling to try and compromise.

Isn't selfish kind of self imposed? I was an only child and I must actively decide not to be "selfish". From the time I was 7 until the time I was 16 I was effectively on my own, so do you fault someone who has had to self suffice for that long for having a hard time considering other people...

I really don't understand what you are saying. Are you saying she is trying to gain custody? Because if that is the case, she has no chance, especially in illinois. You haven't abused the child and you haven't endangered said kid, so I wouldn't sweat it. Lifestyle choices do not equal loss of...

Good luck on your talk, I hope things are able to be worked out to everyone's satisfaction.

I can see where you would have concern with the "hypothetical" comment. I just don't know why the living arrangement thing was changed if there are all these issues still roiling. The only defense would be for you to contest after it was filed if it was done without your permission? I would...

Ok, I guess the part I don't understand is who brought the document up and the imminent filing? While the fact it exists is interesting, I feel you are fretting over things that have not even been approached. Why not just mention it and ask if it was on anyone's mind? I just feel like you may...

Well, as far as this document goes, I am not sure specifically what you are asking. The more important issue to me would be that if you are that wounded and still have this many issues with trust, that is what I think that should be the major focus. I have seen other trust situations, while...

Well, I must say, reading all this, from your perspective and from his, that you are very lucky to have him and not someone less understanding. Perhaps if you are craving more time with him, you could immerse yourself in what he does. I understand that you may not like all of his hobbies or...

I don't think that for the most part that this is a problem in this day and age. Gender lines are pretty much a thing of the past. If someone interests you, why not? Also, if you think it is a fine option, wouldn't it tell you a bit about that person if they didn't?

Quite simply because I am a good bit of this tribe of Native American.

Well Happy Happy Birthday!

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