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    and so it continues......

    I thought we were talking but then he said we weren't. I knew we were having problems before he met her. I actually told him I thank her for bringing our problems to the forefront; we can now discuss them. He tends to sweep everything under the table..doesn't want to make waves. We are trying to...
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    and so it continues......

    Hello again. I think I need to start a new thread as I appear to be hijacking a current one and don't want to do that! I first posted in August of 2010. Basically I have been thrust into polyamory by way of a cheating husband and a willing? poly girl that I will now refer to as A. And he has...
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    Polyamorous love triangle

    I just finished reading the entire thread of "I'm in over my head", posted by Freetime. I wish I had been given the chance to go through what he went through, instead of being thrust into this through a "cheating" episode...or maybe episodeS is better. The girl he is seeing is poly and...
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    Polyamorous love triangle

    This is the part that bothers me, as a monogamous partner married to someone who is poly. Basically, I found out my husband was cheating on me in June, only to hear from him that " oh hon, I am actually poly and this is a good thing and its ok, etc". I agreed to listen but like any mono, said he...
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    New member with a problem

    mixed signals? Ok, so far it has been okay, except for the fact that he won't defriend her on facebook. He claims that he would have to give up ALL his friends. I said I am only asking him to give up 1 friend-her. Am I being too controlling here? I keep telling him that I need time to get over...
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    New member with a problem

    Hello. I am a married 46yr old woman with questions. I found out this past July that my husband was cheating on me with a 29 yr old for the past 6 months. Only, he is justifying it by saying he is poly and so is she and this is something he discovered 2 years ago, only I never knew about it. I...
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