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So my septagon is now a pentagon. I'm very. . .disturbed. It's hard to pinpoint emotion at this particular time. I'm definitely disappointed, possibly betrayed. "There is no time for pain, no energy for anger. The sightlessness of hatred slips away." Still, I put my trust in two people, formed...

I think you may be putting too much thought on the what-ifs. You might be happier working with one hand, since one or both may be empty at this point. What's always worked for me, when I can maintain the position (which isn't always easy), is 'going with the flow'. If a female partner feels...

You get a message. Everybody else except Thunder got a message, and I'm not sure he knows how to read. So meh. Selene isn't left out. Call meh!

Love you darlin'. Wish I could sleep. With you. On you. Against you. Inside you? xOxOxOxOx

As a method for showing affection, sex is easy. Too easy, probably. Do it right and everybody's happy. You've both hurdled trust and intimacy barriers together, and you felt great doing it. you've won. Nonsexual affection takes work. You don't always win. You don't always "anything". It's easy...

Until I read "horny" I was thinking about the human affliction of gravitating towards things that interest us and are interested in us, and the need for events that support and affirm us. Now that you've tossed sex into the pile, I'm still thinking in that general direction. Except now that...

DoubleZero and NeonKaos both make interesting points. Sometimes I desire to be boring and predictable. It could be said that I desire a lack of desire, which I would describe as placidity or tranquility. There's an observable cycle of stress and release with all of my emotions, and sometimes my...

I have some difficulty expressing my thoughts and feelings clearly sometimes. they come out; I share. But they all tend to come out in complicated webs or uneven globs. It's counterintuitive to explaining things to other people. I'm hoping to work on that here. If nothing else, I will accomplish...

That's just the way essay writing is today. It's taken as a given that it's his opinion, and we're welcome to write him a lengthy response back if we don't like it. He should not have said "I" though, that made the message too personal. The abundance model is really the only way you can achieve...

I agree with LovingRadiance the most, I don't have very many insecurities (that I make rules based upon) mostly because I strive to be a very rational person. A lot of the fear that runs through my head is based on being in control. But I can't always be present for everything that happens, and...

I've been in a septagonal polyamorous relationship for almost a month now with my fiance and five other people who I've been really close to-- some more physically than others-- for several years now. That pales in comparison to the experience already present in the dialog here, but I've been...

(I am typing this from a cell phone, which we will all likely come to regret presently.) Thunder's attitude is a problem that concerns everyone. it concerns us in the sense that we have all sat him down, both one on one and all together many, many times. To us, it's a concern over expectations...

This is Company reporting in. Here's some more about the situation: Thunder is a lonely fellow who wants someone to cuddle. He and I have had a talk about the possibility of him "wooing" Marius or me, in an attempt to bridge the gap between secondary and primary. The possibility exists, but...