Hi- I wanted to reach out. I saw on one of your posts that your partner was married but his wife couldn't accept poly and then he got divorced. I am married and was in another relationship with a man- it was very intense and we are in love. His wife knew about me but he wasn't totally transparent. She found out we were talking and has given him the ultimatum of divorce or me. He has kids and they are the most important part so we aren't seeing each other but still talking. i'm going to cut off the talking because its just too hard. I'm heartbroken but want the best for the kids. If neither of us had kids we would be together.