Recent content by Cubafan

Hi Thanks for the reply - I guess in this new world of change, it's always a bit of the blind leading the blind, but I agree finding the web site, is a great comfort to know you are not alone, and there is certainly plenty of help !! So the process can continue with these valuable insights...

Hi Merricat I'm new to this web site and style of life too !! Did you get any replies on this jealousy issue?

Slowly is the best solution I have been pondering this for a while, whilst getting familiar with how it works in my primary relationship ! Initially it was a shock to realise that my wife was kind of poly - in so far as she developped a relationship over a number of years without me knowing...

Yoxi - I have a question for you Have you always been a polyamory person? Is this something you knew inside, or something you gravitated towards over a period of time ? I agree with the jealousy issue - it sometimes rears it's head no matter how hard you work, but we have found that when it...

Thanks for the web site I'll give it a try and see what develops ! I agree with the bad press that polyamory tends to get, and I guess if you "dare" to be different, then you carry that baggage too ! But communications within the "primary" relationship at least mean that's stable a remains...

I think that's oh so true ! One of the things I seem to be struggling with is starting a polyamory relationship, as there seem to be forums if you are looking for sex, or forums if you are looking for a traditional partner, but if you start to talk about polyamory, people seem to run a mile ...

T'm not surethat's too practical as we live thousands of miles away, but thanks for your interest !!

Thanks Yoxi! If there are so few of us in the UK, I'd like to think that makes us special people !! lol !!

Hi Thanks for making me feel so welcome !! The UK can feel a lonely place if you feel you are maybe the only people trying to do this !! lol !!

Thanks for the welcome As my wife and I go down this journey, it's good to know others have travelled the same road, and that we can learn from their experiences It's good to feel you are not alone !!

Hi All Just arrived on here and I guess into the world of polyamory a bit by accident !! lol ! My wife decided this was for her, and after many months of supportive discussion, we have decided to try this approach to life So far it seems a bit complex, and not the easiest thing in the world...