Recent content by Darknyss

Minxxa, I'll look into that, see if i can't find a PDF somewhere that I can download or something, so I can at least get an idea of what's going on in the whole deal before I jump in and spend money on a counselor/therapist. I'm not sure I'll even find one that takes my insurance and is within...

I had read some about DBT, but from what I could gather, it was likened to exposure therapy, which is why I wasn't so sure it would work. Exposure therapy doesn't seem like it would do much on the surface other than make you face your fears, something that most of us probably aren't that good...

Wow, so many responses to reply back to. :) I've got my work cut out for me this morning, it seems. I shall give it the old college try, provided my boss doesn't come hounding me to actually do some work for a change, you know. MichelleZed, it really is kind of looking like that to me...

Yeah, I realized the whole Wall o' Text tl;dr thing after I posted it. Sorry bout that :( herp derp on my part for sure :P

I know I don't post here much, not often at all, really, I suppose. But I've got nowhere else to go really when I need advice. I finally broke things off with my ex-wife Colette back in May, right around the time I got with my new gf Ariana. (That was what pushed it over the edge for Colette.)...

Poiyt's husband story used to be me right down to the bone-- jealous as all hell. Stubborn too. But if I could come to the understanding that my wants were selfish, he can too. I'm probably the last person to be giving advice, but I'ma do it anyway. ;) Sit down, talk with him, and let him know...

LR, you're right lol. I'm always Mr. Overdramatic, "sky is falling", all that bit. This might be a little worse than my typical disasters though, given that the only person I've ever really been close to for the past 11 years is taking off to be with someone else. I wouldn't be quite as...

Oh golly gee, people actually read these things? Thanks for the welcome :D

I'm a 27 yr old guy, apparently single (not by choice, mind) and normally not someone who makes posts on any online forum. I'm more of a lurker type. Lately though, especially since my wife Colette made the decision to leave, I've been flailing about in the dark for some time trying to find my...