Elements or factors that a few of have noticed that seem to make poly attractive.
1) mental issues, depression, ADD, ADHD, personality disorders, Addictions, etc, etc a. Mental b. psychological 2) imbalance in the coupling .....looks introvert with extro...libido, political ...3) 10 -15 yr boredom. Trill seeking 4) narcissism /entitlement 5) Hard core Gaming ...reality escape .... into on line gaming ... and LDR 's. 6) Bdsm 7) Exploring sexuality and gender roles. Becoming bi, pan, Asexual , etc 8) identification with a counter culture. 9) Bad parental model...bad marriage or broken home or homes