Recent content by Dysnomia

Hi, Poohbear. I was a third in just such a situation: MF married couple and myself as their unicorn. Every relationship has a certain amount of dysfunction, but there are a lot of helpful and experienced people here who might be able to help. They helped and supported me when things with my...

It's been a while--I hope Worried2ndary and their loved ones are doing okay. It's always tough when something like this happens, so whatever the outcome is (for whatever reason) I'm sending good energy your way.

I'm actively following and posting in the thread by Worried2ndary about GF, H, and HGF. I have been the HGF and it sounds like you have been, too. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting into words how so many of us feel, and I'm sorry you were so mistreated. Thank you.

Sorry for the double post--I wanted to add more to my previous one but it won't let me edit for some reason. Nycindie is very, very right to point out that HGF has the right to make her wishes known, as does H. H was put in an untenable position in which he was being pulled in two directions...

You have the right to be concerned for you girlfriend, but her relationship with her husband and her exgirlfriend really aren't any of your business. HGF has every right to speak up for her rights as well, and it really isn't any different for her than it is for your GF. It can be terribly...

Thanks again for the support, everyone. The worst part of everything is seeing how awful my boyfriend feels about everything. They've never dated anyone except each other and neither one has any experience with breaking up and being broken up with--even though they're both 30+. He feels...

In theory, she is supposed to be seeing someone for the depression and is supposed to start the medication sequence to get her stabilized, but I have no idea if she legitimately plans to take the medication or just say she's going to do it. It wouldn't be the first time she's gone through the...

Thank you for the legal advice--I think I might need it. My ex just demanded that I move out (my name is on the lease and I couldn't leave if I wanted to, which I don't). My ex wouldn't even say it to my face--she gave he husband, my SO, an ultimatum that either I leave or else, not stating...

Oh my goodness, that's terrible, Greenacres--I'm so sorry you went through that. This situation is indeed very similar, though with different challenges than anorexia. I am completely financially separate from my SO and my ex, though we all live in the same house (which was great when we...

We have lots of pictures of the three of us as well as just her and me, but we were very careful not to take any photos that could be damaging because we (me especially) werein a position where it could have hurt my employment status. I should still have messages and the like from Facebook that...

Hi--I've been in a triad for 3 years, which turned into a female-male-female V a little over a year ago. We've all been friends since 2007. My SO is the man, and I used to date his wife as well. The short story is that my SO and his wife have been together for 15 years, married for the...

Thanks. I'm trying to find other support groups online. Do you have any suggestions?

I'm not poly but my husband is...I'm here to find peace with it and understanding. I love him and am willing to do or try anything to keep our relationship from falling apart because of this. I don't understand polyamory and he is new to it as well. Please help me understand how a...

My husband just discovered that he is poly. I am not. We have no children and I don't want to lose him, but I don't know how to try to live with this. Is there someone I can talk to? I love him and am willing to do anything to make our relationship work. Please help me.