Recent content by Estar

Great thread and good links! I read a lot of wonderfully open and balanced opinions on this forum. I think you are all great communicators. I often wonder how to get my feelings and thoughts across to my love without afterwards finding out that we didn't understood each other. How to...

Thank you for your words the other day. I just put in my agenda a date every two weeks to talk. Our lives sometimes are so filled that it slips through. I do talk with my love. We just often seem to misunderstand and then get so agry from loneliness and powerlessness. The most difficult times...

Dear Mono, I get really moved by your writing. It makes me think of my love and me. He is so different. He always knows the right questions to ask and the important issues to address with people, while I just like people (or not) and can have really nice conversations without addressing the...

folowing a thread about children Dear Loving Radiance,

Dear loving radiance, I'm very happy to read about your situation and your experience with other poly families. My husband and I have a friend that really wanted a child. He happened to like her very much, fell in love with her (I didn't like this at all, but could see why since she is...

Dear Mono, I am a unregular guest on this forum. But I really like reading the stories and questions people write. They remind me that there are more people dealing, experiencing 'deep' feelings and adventures in their relationships. They give me a time to reflect my feelings and I come at...