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    Faerum reacted to consciousspirit's post in the thread New Poly Peeps with Like Like.
    I would love to connect with other poly people for friendship. My interests are self-love, personal growth, spiritual awakening and...
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    Faerum reacted to JaneQSmythe's post in the thread New Poly Peeps with Like Like.
    I do not consider my self to be a spiritual person, more of a practical philospher. :sneaky: I am drawn to concepts of mindfullness...
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    Faerum reacted to GalaGirl's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    To me that is not a joyful yes. I don't want people doing stuff "for me" or "because I love you" like they are making some big...
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    Faerum reacted to Magdlyn's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    I think a poly person trying to be mono for their partner is like a gay person trying to be straight for their opposite-sex partner. You...
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    Faerum reacted to kdt26417's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    Hello Faerum, Polyamory isn't for everyone, and really the question you are asking is, would polyamory be worth it *for you?* The thing...
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    Faerum reacted to kdt26417's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    Re: This! Very much this!
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    Faerum reacted to Tinwen's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    People differ on this point. Is it worth it to YOU? Is it worth the risk, that you may have to part ways with you wife, and start...
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    Faerum reacted to Token2's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    Hmmm is it worth it? I'm one of those people who opened up a relationship sexually because I was likely to cheat. It was a hard...
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    Faerum reacted to mountaingirl's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    YES worth it, if it's something you know you really want and are willing to work (i.e. communicate and listen) for. That's not to say...
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    Faerum reacted to consciousspirit's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    Hi Faerum, I can't really speak to all that you wrote about but for the sake of opening up perspective... What I have observed and...
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    Faerum reacted to AcreoCrimsonstar's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    If you value your marriage over your desire to explore, then its not worth it. On the other hand, if you feel you're not being true to...
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    I’m a little surprised by the comments I’ve gotten on various forums/Reddit. I made the mistake of equating the PLUR community with...
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    Faerum reacted to 3908's post in the thread Is polyamory worth it with Like Like.
    Faerum, welcome to the forum. I havent read every bit of all the other post replies but ill share from my perspective. Ive been on this...
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    Faerum replied to the thread Is polyamory worth it.
    It's more actually going through with it that I think could harm the relationship. Her current agreement feels more like a 'because I...
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    Background: 25yr male, married(mono) to a 26f. For those of you who were married when you started talking to your partner about...
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