Yup. Wise.
I had already started that (declining intimacy). (Easier said than done!!!)
You're right, now I put on my big-girl panties and 'get over her'. Time to sort out on our new way of being together.
FDM
Hey all,
Thanks for this service. It is helping me very much, to read all the other experiences and wisdom.
I've been in a long-distance triad with a 30-years-together couple for 9 months now. As well as the distance, they are in a different generation (older) and different culture than me...