Hi Roly - I've been reading your posts. If your man is gay or bi, then my guess is that he would be ecstatic about being with you , so long as you were cool with him being a guy too from time to time. I'm bi. And I can tell you that the woman who comes into my life who is able to receive my...
To borrow a phrase - I feel your pain. I totally understand where you are coming from and your frustrations. YOU know that he sees as a threat is actually something that would make you feel so much freer that you could (and would) love him even more. The thing is, HE's not wired the same...