Recent content by Gem

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    Childfree (and poly)

    Yep, hubby and I are childfree. My BF is also leaning toward being CF.
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    The Never-Ending Discussion

    You wonder how what we have is different or special to me? YOU are what is different. YOU are what is special. Let me put this in terms you MIGHT be able to understand better…you like gaming. Now, let’s say that someone made a rule that you can only play ONE game for the rest of your life...
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    Rochester, NY Polyamory Munches

    Do you guys ever have these get-togethers on a weekend? My husband and I would love to come, but we live almost two hours away, and there's no way we could do anything on a weekday.
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    just thinking out loud

    Hi there Mountain Boy! You aren’t wasting anybody’s’ time. You are looking for feedback and answers. There is NOTHING wrong with that. I can see why you are reluctant to accept “M” re-entering your life. Clearly his involvement with your fiancé doesn’t hold the fondest of memories for you. I...
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    Beginning my Poly life

    Ask and ye shall receive... :D From my perspective, what I’ve come to understand of guilt (which is plenty) is this: guilt stems from feeling as though we are doing something (or someone) wrong. My question is this: why do we feel that what we are doing is wrong? Is it because (1) someone else...
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    Lengthy Introduction

    Thanks for the warm welcome everyone! (And thanks HMA, I’m very glad to see that I’m not the only one going through this!) All of your feedback is very much appreciated. I have no delusions that this will be simple. We’re just beginning and the emotional toll that it has taken on me so far has...
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    Lengthy Introduction

    Hey there everyone! I just wanted to finally introduce myself and maybe get some feedback from y’all. Well, to begin with, I’m Tech’s wife (he started posting a couple weeks ago). We’ve been married ten years (and together for 14 years). Obviously we’re new to this lifestyle, even though I’ve...
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