Recent content by heartbt

Kinda new around here, but I would have to say when Aussie gets started She (sorry :| )finishes beautifully. Well said. For my $.02 Structure is fine, defining the relationship has many merits, guidelines can be a source of strength for relationships BUT rigid anything is likely going to hurt...

Still going smooth. The "re-entry" into poly is going well since I last posted, very well. Her boyfriend is definitely a choice pick, one of those hidden gems, which actually makes things much easier. All three of us went out for the second time the other night and WE HAD A BALL! No third wheel...

Thanks! I was just digging thru some books looking for that. What a horrible word when the other side of the coin is so descriptive! I do like Frubble, that one will stick. Thanks!

Just takes time Polyphemus, I am really convinced that jealousy was not the issue. I have felt jealousy, and this was something different. This was more of a breach of trust issue in my head. I had willingly put aside my principles (not given them up) for her and found happiness in doing...

Progress! Ygirl, I'm seeing that. The forum is less than a year up, and I can only imagine how many people have been helped by the personal reflections and advice available here. As for me, it's been a blessing. Reading some of the trials that other members have dealt with, or are dealing...

I need some help getting my head on straight. But before I get into that, I have to say WOW! I have been poly-minded for a long time (like 20+yrs), and I have never realized this was here. Good work! This could be long as I have a hard time editing, and I know the devil's in the details here...