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    Birth Control and Polyfidelity

    Other options I've used the sponge. You can get them from a planned parenthood. Not sure where to buy. I've also used the VCF, Vaginal Contraceptive Film, you can buy these at some drugstores and get them from planned parenthood. These both have N-9 which can cause irritation. I had a partner...
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    New Here - Hello!

    Ok thanks!
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    New Here - Hello!

    :) Welcome to you too!
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    Guys who shave... down there

    men and hair down there I've had men both ways, hair and no hair. I prefer some hair. I like it a little trimmed but not so short that it's rough. I like the cushion it provides since I enjoy a lot of clitoral and u-spot stimulation. Sometimes it's nice when the testicles are shaved. But...
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    New Here - Hello!

    Why is my post rated a 2 star!? Why is my post rated 2 stars which means bad? Are the ratings arbitrary? If people want to know more about me they can ask. Thanks
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    Hi I am new - just wanted a place to get this situation some perspective!

    what I might do Since I'm new to being poly please don't take what I write as anything more than what I might do if I found myself in your situation. I personally would hold back a little until I knew that his wife will not reject him having an emotional relationship with another person...
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    Poll - physical copies of STI screens

    Papers Please I ask for papers. I give mine.
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    Seeking a little advice

    Forgiving I've decided to forgive him tomorrow. I'm letting this go. It may take me a while before I can be around him. We live in a smallish area. But I'll give it a try and do what I can handle. I'm content with him being in a very limited friend zone. Thanks for the feedback. I didn't...
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    Pacific Northwest Friends

    I'll check out meetup.com but I have a hard time talking myself into group things. I'm kind of introverted, lol. Sure, send me a message or friend request if you're interested in becoming friends. Yeah, I'll have to get more into group gatherings so I can meet people. It's so hard for me to...
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    Seeking a little advice

    Thank you
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    Poly and surrogate Children?

    Traditional Surrogates It's cool to read that some people have found traditional surrogates (TS) through someone they were dating. You can also look for a TS through an agency or classified located on surrogacy forums. Most would go the IVF route, but some may be into the DIY method.
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    Seeking a little advice

    okay so I have been leaving a little something out... Yes, Marcus keep pushing for more information, lol. I'm now working on becoming pregnant for a couple and I want to minimize the risks as much as I can without completely giving up sex. I know...shame on me for being poly and a surrogate...
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    fluid bonding/bareback

    My stance I really enjoy being fluid bonded with somebody but I can only do that when I really really trust someone. They need to be tested and any of their other partners tested and then if the circle keeps going out condoms and/or testing. I also don't have casual sex in hopes of limiting my...
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    Seeking a little advice

    Haha, you are right. I'm a little nutty ;) when it comes to condoms. We did use condoms up until we made an agreement that other people we had sex with would be safe. I just feel that in my situation right now having sex with him anytime soon isn't going to happen. He made a promise he didn't...
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    Rebuilding: Has taking a break from outside relationships worked for you?

    Hugs I'm new to poly stuff so I can't offer solid advice. But I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling in that relationship and that you aren't getting the security you need from him. From some of the other threads I've read it seems that taking a break from other relationships may not help...
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