Recent content by Iktomi

Porn My take on internet porn is that it's perfectly fine unless you are replacing sex or time spent with your sweeties with the porn. Personally, I find most porn to be tacky and fake, and I don't think it's worth the potential computer worms, but each to their own. I'd certainly watch porn...

hey, i know i am female and you are gay, i wonder if you want to speak to my husband more, he's bisexual and interested in down to earth guys who are family-focused, like you. we want to foster/adopt in the future, but we already have 2 bio kids and 2 step kids that visit us. i'm very...

i haven't read the others' posts yet, i'll go back and read them, but i have to say off the bat, that your SO is struggling with your christianity in the same way that others struggle with polyamory- that is, she has a fixed definition in her mind of what it means, and struggles to come to terms...

my bi husband i have to say, that i have actively encouraged my bisexual husband to pursue relationships and experimentation with other men, but he is more hesitant to do it. this could be due to a couple of things- he is more mono-minded than i am, he was sexually abused by a man in the...

ha, being a female, i know nothing about the gay leather scene, but i'm sure it is out there. in fact, i think there are probably sub-scenes which overlap, but it's hard for a newbie to find those. a lot of my friends are pagan, and i am happy with the pagan scene overall, as it's pretty...

actually, i haven't seen much overlap at all between the kink and LGBTQ community, but there's a sizeable overlap between the kink and poly communities. on the other hand, most of the kinky women i know are pansexual or bisexual, but not part of the LGBTQ community. i think a lot of us are not...

i'm also from wisconsin and poly-curious. it's very nerve wracking getting started! but i don't have many experiences with poly, so it's hard for me to know how i will feel or how i will deal with negative feelings.

hi, i too am from western wisconsin, near baldwin. whereabouts do you live?

i'm also a mom and it's definitely difficult! i live near the twin cities, in western wisconsin. hello, neighbor! ;)

both my husband and i are bisexual (pansexual, actually). and being bi is the main reason for being poly, for me. i just don't crave another male's touch as much as i crave a females'. but, i would say, being kinky also has a lot to do with my wanting to be poly, because the local kink...

Yep, I definitely want more than just sex. All 3 of us do, although both of us girls are younger and horny, and my husband is older and more patient. :p It's going to be hard to keep the NRE at bay while we work on the relationship aspect.

hi :) i'm new here too, and that's the same reason i'm interested in poly. i am satisfied with my man but i feel like i need a relationship with a woman too. from what i've seen/read, poly relationships are a lot more complex but they can be very fulfilling. plus there are many couples out...

This is true, polychromopolous. He is a bit introverted, and still sorting out his feelings. O'm going to talk to him about what he means exactly later tonight and hopefully get some clarification.

Thank you! That was helpful. He doesn't want to have a date, just him and her, though. I wonder why.

So, my husband and I went on a date with our new girlfriend. I have to say, things got hot and heavy from the start. It was wonderful for me and the GF. My husband is more of a slow mover, and didn't connect right away with the new girl, which he didn't tell me until after all the physical stuff...