Recent content by Jane

Hello! So me and my 2 SO's are in a loving, equal closed poly relationship (between myself, my legal husband and our girlfriend). Our GF has 3 kids, two from one father who has no issue with us, and the youngest from another father. This father has decided to take us to court based on Canadian...

Hi ;) My name is Jane (I know - very original screen name). I am newish to poly. Introduced to it two years ago by my now husband. We had a lovely 8 month relationship with a sweet girl, but sadly that ended a month before our wedding :( My personal view of polyamory is a closed triangle...

hmmm I've enjoyed reading everyones post (I haven't been on for a while and just sat down and read this whole thread). I have been contemplating this same question recently - my finace and I are getting married in two months and our girlfriend will be right there beside us, and hopefully we will...

I haven't posted much on here yet, but I do read a lot of the posts - and the biggest benefit of this forum for me is that I makes me feel as though I am not alone in choice to live an "alternative" lifestyle with my fiance and our fantastic girlfriend. Just knowing that there is a vast...

Hmm I seem to have similar insecurities as those already posted - some how that is comforting... More specifically I feel insecure when I feel left out. I love my fiance and my girlfriend (our relationship is very new, but so far is amazing). My fiance and GF started going out first, and they...

Thank you, all. I have spent the last couple hours just reading a variety of posts on this forum and it has all helped me to realize that what I am feeling is NORMAL and not wrong. Seeing that other people have made poly work and/or poly/mono relationships work also helps (although, like any...

Hello. I am the newbie that Sage mentioned. I am glad that I found this site, as there seems to be a wealth of support and information here. I have tried to talk to some of my friends about this, but they just look at me like I am insane and change the subject. Thank you, Sage, for your advice...