Recent content by jerry424

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Well, yeah, I would like to explore another relationship, at least in theory. In practice, circumstances are going to make that very difficult. I just don't know anyone in this area, poly or not. And it seems that this experience has brought out some issues within myself that I feel like I'd...

It seems after further research and reflection that I've got serious boundary issues to deal with, and that's the core of my problem. Over enmeshment. So, off to work on that. Sea, thank you for your input. A triad would seem nice, but he's straight, and not my type;)

Oh no. I don't worry for my relationship, at all. I'm just trying to work through these feelings. It's easy to know you are unique and irreplaceable. It's just hard to feel that way, sometimes.

Okay, more info. She is the breadwinner here, and works 3 swings and 2 graves. So the car is pretty unavailable. The "not by choice" part is solely a monetary thing. If I worked, we'd make too much on paper, and not enough in reality. She isn't going out, because her BF lost his job, housing...

I am, not entirely by choice, a stay-at-home dad, with limited time to get out of the house, or access to the car. I also live in a dinky little town. That puts some things out of my reach a bit.

My gf and I are new to polyamory, and I'd appreciate a little input on some issues I've been having, and to see if I'm all alone in this. First, a little background. My gf and I have been together for 7 years, and are very happy. We decided to give poly a shot about 8 months ago. Mostly it was...