Recent content by jmk

another saturday night. he is off at her house. i asked a simple question, based on the fact that i just broke my arm, how would the twin react if i asked him not to go over on one of "her" nights. she is the secondary relationship. i should come first. i get blasted because i didnt bring it...

i am living part of this with my own leo, and all i can say is be honest, up front and open, but most of all leave room for flexibility. he is probably not as able to be flexible. and give it time. i have been in this open relationship for 13 years, but am just able in the past 3 years to get...

welcome!

lion had a girlfriend once who wound up being mentally unstable. she made our lives difficult for quite a while. we now have an "anti-julie" veto rule. if either one of us feels threatened in the same way by our partner's dates, we can say no. it has only been implemented once each, but it is...

this time apart can be a good thing. re discover each other to rebuild the foundation. i feel that you and i are alot alike in many ways regarding sex and would love to correspond more in depth. i am not asexual, i enjoy sex if i am in the right frame of mind, and the stars line up...

posts are going to be short and to the point for the next few weeks. severely broke my elbow, need surgery and cast. one handed typist right now, blah! :mad: skating with my girls, i am not 16 any more. only fell once. ouch.

good luck. it is sad to lose a friend, but choices have to be made in every relationship to make them work for you. the husband or the lifestyle is a tough decision, i know, although my sit. was reversed. (he wanted poly and i didnt at first.) may the communication between you get to the...

just broke my arm, so the long dialog i wish i could send will be short for now. communication is key. even in long term poly relationships. my lion and i just went through a similar rough patch when i asked if i could dally with a long term mutual friend. lion has full veto power, but i did...

good luck! sounds promising, and a little scary. sometimes that is a good thing!;)

thanks i will

and yes...for future clarification...we are in a vee, with the lion and the crab in the primary in the same household and the twin is the secondary in a separate apartment in the same town. it feels more like an even split, which is NOT what i was planning for in the first place, not a...

these are two very true paragraphs. he doesn't understand my hiding at all. we aren't really new to the arena, 13 years of work on this open relationship, but mine has been mostly academic, i haven't followed through with actual act, as he was very controlling about .... EVERYTHING!!! :D i am...

lol! sorry to get your hopes up!

why do i feel like this? this raging need to cry, scream or take her by her red hair and slam her head in a wall for asking him to come over to have dinner with her and her son, and because they will be drinking, he should spend the night? i don't know. i wish i did and knew where it came...

this whole poly thing is new to many people, even those who have lived the life for years, because we are trend setter and rule breakers. each relationship is different and it's whatever works for the three of you. it will take a great amount of communication, honest communication. if one or...