Recent content by juliepatchoulie

Thanks YGIRL keeping it simple and you are soooooo right at least some of the time! lol

Remember What Tom Petty Said Hey PurpleDreamer! Don't Back Down. That's right. This stuff it is what it is. It ain't rocket science. No, it's much worse LOL because it's the human condition. Polyamory means 'multiple loves' and it simply is what it is. Everyone needs some degree of intimacy...

Sometimes it isn't simply about sex, it's about intimacy. As long as he is with you, he is emotionally unavailable to her, and she has probably seen this, because body language doesn't lie. I know I seem cynical in my replies. It's just that I am such a realist about stuff like this, plus I am...

Feeling European This was very brave, this share. What it sounds like, especially when you say his wife is getting used to him having a wife and a girlfriend, lets all be sophisticated about these relationships. What seems to happen is the male is getting all these 'perks' from this, much the...

perfect poly well, thanks for saying hi....the perfect poly relationship for me would be living with two men and being proactive with both...and absolute perfection would be with a couple and everyone loved everyone with no possessiveness or other issues..and I know these are attainable goals...

Awesome UU Awesome.

Hi Everybody!!! I was so upset when I joined (out of fear) I forgot to introduce myself....I was 'Confused'. Well, I am back to my old self and certainly not confused at all since joining and finding so many others with the same issues...in a good way...I live in Santa Rosa California in an...

On Being Dysfunctional OMG...I am a woman with mucho life experience and if I have learned one thing through the years is that most people have had one or many dysfunctional moments whether they want to admit it or not. However, simply from your posts I cannot conceive how someone would...

Love yours!

polyhearted's name I like your name, too!

reply to erosa omg you are soooo right about verifying and identifying motivation in individuals...that was totally gutsy sharing...having moved on myself from many an erroneous relationship I concur wholeheartedly...later at the seder,joules

New and Still Tryin' Well, I have moved forward. Now the only problem I am having is finding the right third party for this relationship I am now in. I really have trouble with acceptance, and I know that it is important to be able to interact. OMG. I mean, I really don't get on too well with...

whatever Erosa, I like your rules, too....thanks for a guideline!!

not terribly confused Magdlyn, redpepper, Seventh Crow,Fidelia, Erosa, thank thank you again for all your feedback! He has since agreed to seek counseling and he knows it better be damned soon...as for whats in it for me? Well, actually I got a 5 figure acct w/ATM and a paid off Prius so...

thank you all once again for your direct and no bs feedback.....i mean i know i am poly and have been in realtionships for years that were (my favorite) two of the best and like-minded individuals (males) and that worked for over six years for us and we were all very happy because of the...