Recent content by KGodc

What you say about not being able to let my husband do the same is why I am hesitant to explore for myself. Looking at your website, I can relate by saying logically, I would be fine with it, but emotionally, it would be odd for me to hear him say he wants something different. We have been...

I think your advice here is very helpful. I wonder, do you have any deeper advice for exploring the parts that are uncomfortable. Its hard to imagine my husband with another woman because I don't trust most women to be kind and loving....he has been hurt before, and I don't want that for him or...

By asking (it seems like demanding though) her to let you be poly, are you also saying "Do it my way." When you got married, and signed a legal contract, she was under the impression it would be a mono marriage, and now you have asked her to change the game after more than a decade of mono...

Hey Doc, I think you may understand what you need more than anyone else right now, but it seems you aren't taking care of yourself as you try to take care of everyone else. It is a wonderful and powerful gift to love so deeply, but you have to remember your own needs as well. Remember the...

Hey everyone, I'm 25, married, and have a 2 1/2 yr old son. I was always a tomboy, and living in a small town, that doomed me to singlehood or being labeled as lesbian. I dated a few people from my hometown, but I always felt trapped by what everyone thought our relationship should be. I love...

Phantessa, My husband and I experienced a similar pulling away after our son (now 2 1/2) was born. Only now are we doing better are paying attention to each other as much as we have had to pay attention to our son. Sometimes our stress levels (from school, work, and child rearing) are so...