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    My tendency to over-think things....

    Short and sweet posts always lead to fun phone calls! Some friends are going to Europe for a year to work, and have offered to let us house sit while they are out of the country! We'll pay utilities and do general upkeep and get to live rent free. For this, they've agreed to pay half of the...
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    My tendency to over-think things....

    Got to hang out with Zelda this evening. Good day. :)
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    My tendency to over-think things....

    People make me mad! Our poly meetup (of which Keith and I voluntarily took over one meeting and have somewhat unofficially been put in charge of the other since the official host conveniently cancels last minute every month) is NOT formatted as a place to meet people to date. Sure, it happens on...
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    My tendency to over-think things....

    Zelda and I are officially "dating." Neither of us are really sure that acknowledging that is going to change anything (we're still really getting to know each other), but it's good to know since we're attending a lot of poly events together (as in actually riding/showing up together) so people...
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    Checking out others while out with a SO

    I don't mean that we'll literally fight about it, but I can see myself having to point out every time it happens, explaining how it makes me feel and why, over a lengthy span of time before any lasting changes occur in behavior. She said it more as a warning - an "I will probably do this too"...
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    Checking out others while out with a SO

    That is a very good point. Our date nights (Keith and mine) are generally one of two activities (or both if we're in a spendy kind of mood): dinner and movie. Movie is always in the same place - a mall we NEVER go to unless we're going to see a movie. Dinner can be at places we go to when we're...
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    Is it unfair to say that he can't fuck her while I'm at work?

    I find this interesting... How is requesting that sex not happen in HER bed controlling his other relationships? She says that she was working through the issues with them having sex in general while she was at work (since she realized that it's unrealistic/unfair), but not using the bed was a...
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    Checking out others while out with a SO

    I know this has been talked about before, but I can't find it for the life of me! I was talking to someone I recently started dating (as in we made it official about 2 days ago... haha), and it came up that Keith had mentioned that I have gotten frustrated with him in the past for checking out...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    I officially had a "we're dating, right?" conversation without it being too terribly awkward! Woohoo! I think I've actually learned something from all of the craziness that was my most recent relationship and reading all the stories on here. :) Most definitely a success in my book.
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    My tendency to over-think things....

    I do stupid, stupid things sometimes... A week away was a bit much. I missed Keith like crazy, he was needy when I got back, AND I didn't realize how difficult it would be to make sure I had time to reconnect with him after being gone and to make time to see Zelda as soon as I could, too. I...
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    Polyamory: Married and Dating - Premier July 12th

    I've watched the first 4 episodes (finally found the online - yay!) and so far I've thought it's really good. There is a lot of sex, but I expected that. The quad seems to communicate ALL THE TIME while the triad seems a little more natural in their communication. My only complaint is how often...
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    My second most recent message: "I am so hot can we chat"
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    My tendency to over-think things....

    Zelda and I held hands as we walked along the beach, cuddled in a sea cave, and kissed on a rock in the shallows. It was a good day. :) Now I am ramping up my energy for my trip to visit family. I'm packed, I've done a crap load of housework, and I've spent as much time as possible with Keith...
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    Indiana

    There is a poly group in Indy on meetup.com - I never got to attend before moving out of the state, but I believe they have a monthly, casual gathering. I don't know anything about it other than it exists, but it might be worth checking out if you're looking for a way to socialize with other...
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    Word Association Game!

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