Recent content by LadyLeStrange

Absolutely not. And it's not anymore. That is why I think that being able to come out about this part of myself will help us get away from that, especially through counseling and very open and honest communication about our feelings.

But the thing is, I HAVE been standing up for myself. And we have been doing better. I mean, up until 6 months ago, I was a Christian. At least, I was trying to be one. But I am a Pagan. I always have been. I just finally realized that it was okay to embrace it, rather than force myself into a...

Well, I think this might be one of the things that is affecting our relationship. I mean, I had many boyfriends before him, while I was his first girlfriend. But even when we were dating and I knew I loved him, I still sought relationships with other guys and even girls. I didn't really...

I was thinking of going to counseling first, and then him joining me a little later so that we can figure out the best approach to bringing this up to him.

I was also thinking that maybe seeing a marriage counselor and working through this with a professional might help. What do you think about that?

Correction: he USED to be that insanely jealous. He has gotten a little better. I couldn't take it anymore and started standing up for myself and having friends. I just stay open and honest about the friends I have and he has been much better about it.

So here's the deal: I have been married to my husband for three years, dating for even longer. We have a daughter together. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, and I don't want to "break up" with him or anything, but I am not happy. I think I might be polyamorous, because it's the only...