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Ravenscroft - thank you! My primary intended audience is active triads, be they closed or open. Main secondary audiences include people who are curious about triads or being in a triad, as well as active vees. IME so far (being active within triad community circles online for the past couple of...

Thanks so much A Wonderland! Already done - Instagram has, surprisingly, by far been the best way to connect with other triads. Active part of the triad network there! (Incidentally, if anyone is looking for ways to connect with other triads, hashtags like #polytriad, #thelif3, #thruple...

Thank you Alan! Much appreciated!

Thanks!

(And there are already at least two books that cover "three people in love" - both are academic and completely different than what I'm working on, but I'm certainly not the first and *hopefully* won't be the last to cover the topic!)

Thanks River, I completely agree! I was just being cheeky. ;)

Hi everyone! It has been a while since I've posted. :) I've been in a closed FFM triad for over two years now and given the dearth of resources (especially literature) on living as a committed group of three, I've decided to (literally) write the book. I already have quite a few sources but...

Thank you, everyone. It is great to hear all the perspectives. I will share the basic ideas with the people close to me who are struggling with this - I think it's helpful! I welcome any other thoughts if they come up.

I'd love to see some discussion of and opinions on a theme that I've been seeing in my local group and some poly people in my life. It's a discussion that is happening to some extent within my local group, and I am interested to hear a wider range of perspectives. So the general scenario is...

Sure, I'm sure you could gain knowledge and support here! Do you feel like the definition of "monogamish" is a fair assessment of your marriage? If so, why? Is there any specific type of information or support that you're seeking?

Good luck! Getting back to dating can be super confusing and anxiety-inducing. Sounds like you're doing great so far. It's scary but can definitely be really fun!

Thanks so much for your response. It offers me some needed perspective. I realized today that although I've been a metamour, my only real dealings with metamours have been in really messy situations that didn't offer any positive learning experiences (things to work on... anxieties to...

I'm currently seeing a married man, D. We have been seeing each other for a little over three months. He and his wife have been poly for about three years, though she has had one long-term serious relationship and he has not had a serious other relationship yet. My husband and I have been poly...

Nice to meet you, Kevin!

We've met a lot of hippies, academics and gamers in our local community, but there is definitely a wide range of "types." My husband and I used to qualify as borderline hipsters, but then we had a kid and now generally get pigeonholed as hippies, but not touchy-feely hippies, or pot-smoking...