Recent content by Lucidius

I suppose I should mention that when she mentions being with another man or woman, usually in weaponized context to try and make me jealous, I am 100% ok with it. I've had lovers do that in the past and get extremely frustrated when I supported them. Is it just an unbreachable psychological...

MindfulAgony, I was worried it was manipulation. There is a pattern in the whole relationship which that fits. Maybe that's the difference. I know I'm always going to be with me. Now how do you impart that concept to someone without being preachy? lol

She is in a different country for school at the moment, so it's not like we're losing time together anymore then we would be. I've suggested this too, to no avail, which I thought was hypocritical, given that she had been the "third party" in a poly thing with a couple. She went as far as to say...

Hey all. I'm new here. I have some questions and so forth. I've been in a relationship for the last 9-10 months with a sweet little woman who is into a lot of the things I am. It's been great, sort of. I made it clear from the very beginning that polyamory was very important to me, and that I...