Recent content by Marle

I'd have that fear too, mj. If I needed to find a professional, I would search the internet for reviews first to make sure that wouldn't happen. With my minister, I had heard that she was working with a triad that was considering marriage/commitment ceremony/whatever you want to say. They...

My husband and his girlfriend and I have gotten counseling from my minister. I go to a Unitarian Universalist church, which is very liberal and open-minded. It's also a lot cheaper to go to a minister than a psychologist. She (minister) has been very helpful to us. She's clearly done a lot...

Thanks for responding. Based on the conversation we had when we broke up, I don't think he was actually poly-friendly, which shocked me, because I didn't think a mono person could get involved with an honest, open poly person if they were actually against polyamory. I think what happened was...

You're not wrong to want to keep the relationship with your boyfriend. It's hard to say what the best thing to do is, but I was in a similar situation not too long ago, and I couldn't have ended it with my guy. When one relationship is falling apart, the idea of ending a good relationship is...

Hi there. I'm in a polyamorous marriage. I live with my husband and his girlfriend, but this isn't about them. My first secondary partner just broke up with me this week, and I kinda don't know how it happened. We'd been dating for three months. But I didn't know, until he was breaking up with...