Recent content by Marvel

Addition to my last post Obviously the mood of one's spouse affects them. I remember what he was like when he was unemployed. It affected everything and everyone in our house. So I can get that his being happier will be a benefit for me. I guess I was thinking more of a direct benefit for...

Yesterday Yesterday I spent the largest majority of the day crying. JN, my husband, sat and talked with me, held me and talked with me. It comes to my being afraid: I am afraid he will value his ability to have sex with others more than us. I am afraid he will compare me to them and find me...

Vin: He has told me that he is very happy in our marriage, that he loves me very much, and that my weight does not affect the love and desire he feels for me and has all these years. We had some hard times a few years ago when he, like a lot of other people we knew, was unemployed for a long...

Thanks, km This whole thing is very difficult for me. I guess I feel that right now things are fine, but if another woman is involved there will be comparisons and so competition and that I will not win in that case. That if offered someone who is thinner, prettier, and has no health issues...

Reply to BaggageControl Yes, at first it was a lot like grieving. I don't think I have ever felt such emotional pain. And thanks for the hugs. The reasons he will not explore BDSM with me are because I have no interest in those activities, and he says he knows I would just be "going along"...

My story is posted here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=131544#post131544 I want my husband JN to be happy, and he says that having the freedom to sleep with other women will let him explore BDSM and have other relationships and that this will make him happy. But I am afraid...

My history is this: my husband and I have been married over 20 years. I'll call him JN. We have three children, two are still at home. I have been a stay-at-home mom for most of child #2's life and all of child #3's. I have had some health issues that started after child #2 but before child...