Recent content by oklawildflower

Thank you for your responses. RP I didn't think about how some of my story might not be clear. BF does indeed mean best friend for me. I should have wrote it out. And Brigid does have the story correctly. The military nuances make it confusing as well. I've spent our marraige following him...

I am looking for advice or anyone with experience on transitioning a relationship from primary to secondary. I feel confused because I'm new to poly and new to breaking up. For a little background my husband and I have been married for almost 6 years. He was my high school sweetheart. My first...

So what I have a hard time wrapping my mind around, particularly when I see how great they are together, and how much they share, is what exactly we have that he couldn't have with her, plus some more. We have time, a history together, and a pretty good rhythm. But we also have the issues of a...

I hope no one minds that I took my time to reply. I wasn't sure what I wanted to say, so I've been rereading the comments and other posts and working through my feelings. The first thing that I want to mention is how much I appreciate everyone's responses, and having a place like this to come...

So, I've read a little in the forums and have seen some similar stories. I've been married to a man for five years. Last October I finally realized I was bisexual. I fell in love with my best friend. It was a weird situation. My husband Viggo and I had been discussing my sexuality some months...