I'm glad what I shared with you was helpful. It was such a difficult time for me trying to decide what to do. My former husband was a good man, in general, and a good father. There were times I hated myself for not being able to just accept what he could offer emotionally, and focus on the many other good parts of our relationship. I did a lot of self-examination to make sure I wasn't wanting him to change to make up for something lacking inside myself. If I can be of any further help or support, please feel free to contact me.