Recent content by Qpmomma

Thank you all! I think I am using my expierence with my DH (he wasn't keen on me dating in the beginning) and trying to apply it to her BF. They are 2 different people, with different life experiences and think different ways. My husband would have a hard time if I included Pan so deeply in...

Marcus, thank you! You make some really good points. You are right, I should trust in her decision making. After all, she trusts in mine. She has never went to my husband about anything. She has always trusted that I've taken his feelings into consideration. I won't talk to him. As far as us...

We just started dating and I don't think it's anyone's buisness. It's all really new and we want to keep it between us for now. I guess I just really don't want to inpose on thier big day. I don't know how her fiance feels about me helping her this much. I've met him and we've hung out, but I...

I havn't been on because things have been so crazy! In a good way. My husband and I have been in therapy. Our marriage is as strong as ever! Pan and I have started dating, but we have been going very slow. We've mostly been hanging out and talking. We've been on a few dates. We havn't had any...

Thank you. :) Hopefully down the road Pan and I will be able to have a closer relationship. Hubby hasn't said "no" just "not right now". We are working on it.

A few months ago I posted that I am married and bisexual but my husband didn't know. And I was having feelings for my friend. Since then, I told my husband. We are now in therapy with a therapist who specializes in gay/lesbian/bisexual relationships. I told Pan how I feel about her and she feels...

I have really been thinking about this a lot. I have come to the conclusion that, although it would be great, I am not willing to lose my husband to have a girlfriend. I know that if he has me chose I will chose him and our family over having a girlfriend. We did have a discussion a while ago...

I have been where you are emotionally and mentally. If you think you will hurt yourself, walk into an ER and tell them you are afraid you will self harm. Please get help for ypur depression. It's no joke! Also, if you are afraid for your life can you go to a police station? It sounds like...

I know. When my husband and i first started dating he was very straight laced. Part of me thought my experience in college was a one time deal and I lied to myself and lied to him in the process. I say I have a crush on Pan b/c I often wonder if my feelings for her are distorted. I do feel...

Hello! I am new here, but not really new to the poly lifestyle. My history: I am a female and I have always been sexually attracted to men and women. It feels natural to me and I'm not ashamed of it at all. In college I was in a relationship with a guy who was really supportive of me exploring...