Recent content by RavenSophi

I think you should sit your wife down and have a talk with her. People are wired monogomously and they're taught that thinking of someone else and/or developing feelings for someone outside your relationship should be pushed away, etc. The unfortunate thing is, if that happens for a prolonged...

Scary, isn't it? But then, you're also giving a second person the chance to love you unconditionally, wholeheartedly, fully and with as much passion as you can handle. I would rather take the chance with the hopes of experiencing that, than sit and worry about my heart and lose out. :)

The thing I enjoyed most in the beginning was the openness; walking down the street and my partner spotting a nice looking girl and telling me that he found her atractive. I'm bi so we can look at women together. I know his taste so well by now that if I see a woman he would like I tell him to...

I think it would be nice of Beat to send a reply explaining the difference, of course she doesn't deserve any further communication after a response like that, but still. Personally I think we should do what we can to 'educate' people if not for their good but for our own. I for one don't like...

I'm from Johannesburg, South Africa and have been involved in the polyamorous lifestyle for close to 4 years. Currently it's only me and my partner of 8 years. I'm part of a Poly group in Johannesburg organising events where we all can get together and socialise while helping each other through...