River.. i loved your comment on being biamorous and prefering to be referred that way instead of bisexual. just wanted to say hello - I am super new at this and love this site. Reading it has been very helpful. MuaH !
River: feel free to add your own comments to this 'disambiguation' thread (as wikipedia would call it). I now link to it in my sig, in the hope of lessening the confusion a little: feel free to do the same from your sig.
Hello. I have read all your posts listed here this morning. So, I wanted to ask you a question and make a comment.
Comment: Being lesbian, African American, and interested in the polyamory lifestyle is breaking 3 taboos. It is both emowering and painful. Because of the pain, I struggled. Finding solutions to the problems, caused me to grow and empower myself.
But, it is an ONGOING struggle.
QUESTION: New York has a large LGBT Polyamory group. Because I am new, I just want to MEET with lesbians interested in polyamory. I have seen ONE WOMEN ONLY group in Northern California which may or may not be a lesbian group.
Any suggestions on finding lesbians near Southern California interested in this subject?
I am a happy homemaker, too. You and I have the same philosophies it seems, like when it comes to work for example. I remember how rich I felt when I came across info on frugal living. I did not have to win a million dollars to live happily, I just needed to focus on frugality and re-access what I want and what I don't and why. So I was like you, I was tired of giving so much of my energy away only to have the weekends to live. Sacrificing material things in order for us to live more stress free and happy is much much more important to me.