Hi Gemini
I really suggest you try and get a lomi lomi. it is very relaxing.it can be done 4 handed as well as 2 handed...i have had both. it is a massage where the forarms are used more than the hands..if you can imagine flowing strokes with the forarms over your body and under your body..it is generally done without towels so the whole body can be treated without a towel getting in the way. it is sensual..relaxing and i like to have a minimum of 90 mins normally i like 2 hours. if 4 handed ...you lose track of where the arms are and just float in the feeling of your whole body being touched carressed and massaged. yes it is very sensual....of course..a man will normally get erection but everyone understands this and it is no problem...try it..you will enjoy it so much
take care and have fu
charlie