Recent content by SkylerSquirrel

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    anybody see this article? Posted on Valentine's Day, too. Nice.
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    the story continues

    Bah, things. 1) I don't care as much anymore if people find out I'm poly. My brand of poly will be understood by most people as simply being single with FWBs, or something like that. It's not like I'm going to have multiple live-in partners, or even "official" partners at all, at least at this...
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    How can I get myself hot for my 1st lover when all my body wants is my new lover?

    I like this idea. I will keep it in mind, no pun intended :p
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    the story continues

    Apparently I accidentally got banned, and my blog thread was deleted because it is nowhere to be found. :eek: but I'm back! yayness! okay, so here are the updates: - Five and I went to mediation and actually came to an agreement on almost everything. Where I am not being taken advantage of in...
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    Hoping for some advice.

    I don't think that's what sparklepop meant. I read "listen to the children" as make sure they know their voices and preferences are HEARD. That doesn't mean that those preferences will be followed to the letter. It just means that the children know you will try to accommodate their preferences...
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    stages of acceptance?

    I'm new to all of this, so take what I say with a grain of salt. But from what I understand, it seems like your being uncomfortable when the three of you are together is not the main issue. It is a symptom. The main issue is that you are not sure where you and your BF stand in the relationship...
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    Word Association Game!

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    Polyamory and Ethnicity

    Okay, so here's a question about the unconscious racism thing as far as being attracted to people of a certain race. What if you're not attracted to people of other races, but it's in the context of only being attracted to people like you? As in, you not only prefer your own race, but your own...
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    That sounds pretty straightforward. :)
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I really have only one real experience to go by ... but it was a little over a year. Although it was a LDR for the last half, so I don't know if the NRE period would have been shorter or longer if we had remained in close contact.
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    Blogging, blogging, blogging.

    Well, you won't know unless you tell it to them clearly. Including the part where you feel like no one cares about what you want. Then at least you will know for sure whether or not your people care about you, and you can make your next decision based on that. (I myself need to take my own...
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    Just LR

    ^I am the exact same way.
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    husband is leaving me

    Sounds like you're absolutely doing the right thing.
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    A lost carebear in need of a friend.

    Hi and welcome :) It sounds like you could be demisexual? I am that way too.
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    Comfort Zone

    I get the "getting out of your comfort zone" concept. Mainly because I do thrive from challenging myself (in ways I choose, obviously. I agree that being forced to challenge yourself is not a good thing). BUT I also have the tendency to be lazy and NOT challenge myself. It's how some people are...