Recent content by SmoovMochaNut

And that's cool. I understand that. As long as both partners/spouses are aware, and fine with the arrangement, no issues there. But I'm sure there have been just as many couples where one partner wanted to remain mono and expected the other to do the same. That's where they must trust each other...

Without all of details, we discussed her interest in seeing women. We've been married for over 10 years. She wanted me to be okay with her desire and pursuit of a fantasy she had been curious about for years. She wanted to know if I was okay with her possibly pursuing sexual relationships with...

I see what you're saying. You're cool about it. You trust PK. My partner now knows she is definitely bisexual. I agreed to allow her to continue talking to a girl she was interested in. The girl had been wanting to hook up with her to meet and possibly play a little. I encouraged my partner to...

This is what I fear in my own relationship, as well-- will my partner find that she is getting more out of her new relationship than she gets with me? She says she's open with me, but she really isn't. Much of what I do know about her was learned from her relationship with other people. She just...

I feel bad for R. He had deep conflicting emotions or limitations. If he couldn't play, then he didn't think you should consider playing, either. And it was unclear if you realized this. But R should have verbalized this at some point. My partner sometime does this. She thinks I know all of her...

1. Method? Should have been face-to-face conversation. Seemed more like "I've been fucking other guys, and now I want you to fuck other women so you can be cool with me fucking other people." 2. How did you tell, or how were you told? My partner mentioned that she had joined a couple of...

I agree with nycindie. Simple manners is the big thing. If she doesn't want you to be "included" in their otherwise private conversation. Be courteous, and take the call to another room. This is normal, I think. It's weird seeing a spouse or partner have an intimate phone/text conversation with...

Our wives are very similar in this aspect. Mine is almost completely open to her new friends, but remains guarded with us, almost holding kind of a privacy shield. It is very hurtful to see the woman you thought was very open with you be truthfully open to somebody that she barely even knows...