Recent content by sundevil

Fluid bonded with both my wife and my girlfriend. When we first started as a quad, wife was on the pill, girlfriend had an IUD, but both men used condoms for a couple months. After that "probationary" period, the gloves came off, so to speak. About two years ago my girlfriend had the IUD...

This always seems to be some guys' biggest hangup. They love the idea of opening their relationships, and visions of threesomes with another woman dance in their heads. And then the woman has to ruin it all by suggesting she might actually prefer a male playmate/partner. We could speculate for...

Can't add anything that GalaGirl didn't already say so well.

Very much sounds to me like she's in a place of "OK, you had your fun playing about with this, but I'm done. It's poly or me, decide." If that is in fact the case - pushing her, however gently, to reconsider will likely only make her dig in. Your watching shows about polyamory and trying to...

Thanks all for the warm welcome. :) I'll try to condense this into a manageable answer that doesn't fill the browser page (hard to encapsulate 8 years of polyamory into one post!) I think I'd characterize it as chemistry. It was good between girlfriend (D) and I even when we were just friends...

Happy to have found a place to discuss poly. :) I'm 42, married for 19 years, and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 8 years (we just celebrated our anniversary). She is my first and only venture into poly (haven't been interested in anyone else). My wife and gf's husband were...