Recent content by Twinkle

I never really considered how a person might feel on the other end of the threesome if you were just indulging whims and was not totally connected to it. Now it makes me understand more about a situation where I might have actually hurt someone by trying to be compromising I was actually...

I think it is interesting what Morningglory said about not being bi-sexual. That is another struggle I have had with labels. I also indulge sometimes in bisexual activity with my husband as a part of play that he enjoys, but I honestly do not consider myself to be bisexual becuase although the...

Maybe this being her first date, she does not really know if things will go great and she will want to spend alot of time with him or things will be disasterous and she will want to get away as fast as she can. She does not want to commit herself to certain timing. She does not want to feel...

My husband and I meet way too many of eachothers needs. We have been married for 13 years and we are quite scatter brained when we have to perform some function that the other person usually takes care of. And we miss eachother so much if we spend alot of time apart. However each of us lived...

I have actually experienced this from your partners side of things. Because of the fact that the other person that was involved was a very close freind to both of us, it was kind of a double betrayal for me and nearly ended my marriage. Although it was hard, my husband and I were able to work...

I think it comes down to what is acceptable to everyone concerned.

I think that self-esteem is a lifetime struggle. Some people seem to work it out better than others, but it is most definately critical in relationships because too often low-self esteem generates insecurity towards your loved ones. When I can't seem to manage my self-esteem, I atleast try to...

I have spent some amount of time on dating websites and have met alot of freinds and interesting people myself, although I have yet to find exactly what I was looking for, one thing I have learned for sure is that there are an awful lot of people looking for just one person to love them, even...

I am pretty new here, so I hope it is ok for me to put my two cents in. I believe that it is always best to find out if someone can accept you for who you are upfront, than to lose them later due to a misunderstanding, after much emotional investment has taken place. If a person is not able to...

I am pretty new to this lifestyle and a bit naive to the terminology. My husband and I tried "swinging" for a few years, and found it unfulfilling. Both of us are naturally in need of emotional connection in order to enjoy physical connection. We found it may be more suitable to have separate...