Recent content by Winterfire

Serena has the right to decide what she wants out of life. You can't debate a person into becoming who you want them to be. She also does have a point about time issues. A person only has so much time, and if she thinks it would bother her to try to date a polyamorous person, and have to split...

I'm in a similar situation. In my case, my husband was the one who wanted to be poly. Now we have a V situation. I have a girlfriend. He's not seeing anyone currently, although he is working on that. What I'm aware of in terms of work I have to do is making them both feel like they are valued...

That one is pretty much how my husband and I started out. I was fairly hesitant about the idea of being poly, and my husband kind of pushed me on it (which, in itself, is a red flag sort of thing to watch for, that everyone isn't quite on the same page). Things didn't turn out like he'd...

We've all been talking about it already. I guess I didn't want us dating different people because I didn't want us spending tons of time away from each other and having separate lives. I'm sure it doesn't have to be that way. If we can all be friends, then we should all be able to spend time...

My husband has for years been interested in doing a poly-triad type situation. I was willing, but I was a little lukewarm about it. A triad was really the only situation I was willing to go for. I didn't want us dating different people. After a few dating situations where I wasn't really into...

From the way you're talking, it's sounding to me like the relationship you have with your girlfriend is a lot more casual? If the relationship with her is not at a level where it would be considered a life partnership, then I wouldn't think she should have that much say in how you raise your...

It sounds like letting her go is the only thing you can do if what you each want is completely incompatible. You can't force yourself to be ok with her constantly wanting the opportunity to have sex with any person she meets that might catch her fancy. She's refused to give you the time you...