Recent content by zinc

I'm a newbie here, with no cred, so, warning! That said, the solution to "our sex is not satisfying and infrequent" (and at least I think messages in your post that you view this as "her issue") of extending to an additional relationship (polyamory) strikes me as superficial. I'd suggest you...

Thanks for the thoughtful replies. Yes she's special alright. Interestingly, reading "Passionate Marriage" by Schnarch is also helping me figure things out, too.

My wife wants to have "other sexual experiences", and I could use some guidance and insights. Here's the super-duper short form of the story: - A relationship that started at age 17 in high school. - Married at 22, we are now 52/51. - Sex never "great" nor very frequent. - By the time our...