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    Mono? Insecure? Something Else?

    I'm probably about to make myself very very unpopular on this forum, but I have to say that I disagree with most of what's been said here. I put myself in your husbands shoes based on what you said, and asked myself 'How would I feel?' As it turns out, it wasn't that hard. I have been in his...
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    How to have a better/less arrogant attitude.

    Like many others, I am far too awesome for my wife to want someone else. or so I tell myself, despite her having a boyfriend :D
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    Ring from Boyfriend

    My wife wears a wedding ring (from me) and a small pendant from her lover, though only because we're all too poor to buy a ton of jewelry. Before I lost my engagement ring, I wore it fairly infrequently. As has been mentioned earlier in western culture wedding rings tend to scream 'unavailable'...
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    Polyamory and Ethnicity

    I noticed that too, and being black it IS extra-difficult being part of yet another minority. Actually, myself and my girlfriend are black, so I guess we throw off the spread twice over.
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    I cannot even imagine the pain you must be feeling right now, but your anger I certainly do understand. The way she's acting, assuming you've told us everything, I can honestly say that you would be justified in turning around and walking away from this relationship. BUT (and this is a big but)...
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    Hiya :)

    I've been lurking for going on a year now and finally decided to actually register and join in the many many excellent conversations about our wonderful lifestyle. What else do you see in an intro thread? Let's see...i'm 29 and my wife and I are currently poly as hell. Both of us have...