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  1. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Strange New Chapter

    I've entered into a strange new mode or energy lately. I dont know if its because I'm in the process moving, or for some other reason. I don't feel like dating anymore. Recently broke things off with one partner and am hanging by a thread with the other person. We haven't been talking...
  2. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Need advice on current situation

    I'll try my best to keep this short cause its a long story. Significant other isnt talking. Not really. He also isnt showing affection and pulls away when I try to touch him. Thats the jist of it. This afternoon, he got home and started fiddling with his new tech stuff he got in the mail...
  3. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Finding others...

    Thank you... I've been purposely avoiding Fetlife.. Maybe thats actually The Way.
  4. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Finding others...

    Honestly none of the have 'worked'. I met my first BF on Howlr last year by happenstance. He reached out to me. I met my 2nd BF IRL at a party. We didnt talk until winter break in like January. Both just so happened to live where I am. So I end up finding the long term people right here in...
  5. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Finding others...

    Thanks for feedback! I Have no idea what it's like overseas, it sounds like this sort of thing is outlawed over there! I used to have Kik but never used it after 2015. I'm on Telegram though which is like that. Yes, this has been hard for me. Anytime i try to get back on the horse and date...
  6. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Finding others...

    Thanks buddy. 100% agree with you! Anytime I have ever found people it's when I'm not looking lol.
  7. AcreoCrimsonstar

    New Poly Peeps

    Hello there! Becoming Poly for the past almost-year has absolutely opened myself up spiritually. But my spirituality isnt necessarily tied to my relationships. I will say that I felt more of an 'expansion' last summer when I had left my ex, and confirmed that "yes I AM this way", than nowadays...
  8. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Is polyamory worth it

    If you value your marriage over your desire to explore, then its not worth it. On the other hand, if you feel you're not being true to yourself by NOT exploring.... this would be something you should ask yourself, "Am I happy with this one person for the rest of my life, and thats it?" This...
  9. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Rule has been broken... What to do?

    Gonna be honest,.... leave him. EDIT: What I mean to say is, I would leave the other person if this happened to me. The sheer dishonesty and manipulation are grounds for divorce and as someone who has dealt with manipulation in the past, I can tell you, I believe you'll be better off without...
  10. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Hello from Texas.

    Thats exactly what it is for me.
  11. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Finding others...

    Good evening everyone! So I'm almost a year into my Poly Journey, and its been hard, like, barren wasteland hard, to find other poly people. We don't live in a big city AND I live in TX, where its very religious, so that makes it all that much harder. So the topic and question I'm reaching out...
  12. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Hello from Texas.

    ...oh... But I can form connections like that within a day or two 🤷🏻‍♂️
  13. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Hello from Texas.

    Hey Eponine! I've never thought of myself as Asexual. I love sex too much to identify as that lol. Buuut I say I'm Demi cause I must have some kind of deep connection in order to have that with anyone. And if someone doesnt want it, I dont want it either. Conversely, if someone shows me they...
  14. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Inner Musings...

    Oh my god you're speaking the words of my life! Everything you mentioned about the monogamy mindset was spot on for me as well. I went my whole 20s believing that, that was the only way to do things And just going with what other people do or what everyone else does was the right thing to do...
  15. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Hello from Texas.

    Thanks for the welcome Kevin! Thats awesome how close you are! NM is a place I seem to gravitate towards again and again in my travels.
  16. AcreoCrimsonstar

    Hello from Texas.

    Hello there! I'm Acreo. Your friendly neighborhood aspiring rockstar Cheetah. Just discovered this forum yesterday and decided "why not give it a shot?". There is a saying, "You miss all the shots you don't take", so I'm putting that to practice. Where to begin without going on a ramble? I'm...
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