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    Reclaiming Myself

    Welcome. You have come to the right knowledgeable, embracing forum to share your thoughts. It's hard to break from conditioning, especially, when someone starts to consider something they really hadn't before like your boyfriend. Many people are okay with the idea of non-monogamy until it...
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    Not-so-new newbie!

    Welcome. Sounds like you are well on your way to healing and recovery as you explore your new connections. I look forward to hearing more.
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    Hello from WV!

    Unicorn is basically a woman who is willing to date both members of an existing couple, solely, and engage sexually with both partners. Relationships, in general, can be difficult as you have noted. Hopefully, this journey will allow you to be true to yourself.
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    My Re-introduction

    Thank you, Kevin, for the welcome.
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    Comittment ceremony ideas

    Customized vows, some sort of handfasting, and public consummation is the best way to go. :D
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    What you listening to Now :

    In This Moment
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    My screenname is a play on the word eclectic. I use it because...I am and proud of it.:) I also use another screenname Lyknothr which is a play on 'like no other'. See same explanation above for usage. haha*
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    Hello from WV!

    Welcome. This is definitely the right place. I have been known to the be the imaginary Unicorn.:) With that said, I can relate and many people here have been a great support over the years. I look forward to hearing more.
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    Awkward Hi

    Welcome, Curious. Hopefully, you can gain lots of knowledge and insight from the shared experiences of those you encounter here. I look forward to hearing about your journey along the way.
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    New & just need someone to talk to

    Thank you for sharing. I concur with everything KDT commented. In addition, I can't emphasize, enough, the need for straightforward honesty with yourself, as you do some self-evaluating, then honesty & clear communication with your husband. If you feel some kind of way about the back rub in...
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    My Re-introduction

    Good day. I have been a member for a number of years but have been absent online for a few of the most recent ones so I am reacquainting myself. I don't have anything of much intrigue to say. I have practiced some form of non-monogamy for the majority of my dating life and find it works best...
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    Word Association Game!

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    Forever Eklctc

    Snippet I am not in the mood to completely detail the latest happenings in my world but I will briefly share that my exe female triad partner turned metamour attempted to contact me a couple of nights ago and, at this point, I'm comfortable in the knowledge that I will not her from her again or...
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    First, I want to say that I love you. Second, I want to say that I'm sorry that I have been so swamped from work that I haven't been able to keep up. Third, I'd like to say that I totally agree with NY regarding great communication being better than great sex at times (hell for me great...
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    Quad Family

    Wow...sounds like you live in a bad area in regards to the honesty and communication level of these 'officials' you have been dealing with. Well, I'm glad your testing has come back okay so far. I'll send you healing and healthy vibes.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ It's unfortunate that your aunt felt the...
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    oh boy- i am lost in the multiple choices here- hopefully i have

    I think you may be referring to the Fireplace category which you can access from the homepage. Well, welcome and I look forward to more detail about your journey as it develops.
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    Ari's Blog - Beginning

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    Redpepper's journey

    Once again, I'm late to the game but I wanted to also offer my support; wanted to voice that I agree with bella regarding the respect and admiration I have for you and your clan; and wanted to add my silky body to the group hug. :) I also wanted to chime in on the post you wrote regarding the...
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    Polyamorous just in words or actions too

    I've been so out of the loop of lately but I did skim through some of the last ten postings. LR, I totally agree with your last posting. It's hard to do for many people- and many people do not live that way-in a way that makes it 'simple'- but it's not impossible to accomplish. However, it does...
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    I appreciate what I have, and so I use what I got.

    Well, first, welcome. Second, I must apologize now for my lack of formatting. I am watching WWE (my regular Friday night activity) and have to resort to using the laptop which does not have a functioning enter key. Third, I would say let's spend less time analzying the mindsets of others or what...